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Manners of Eating / Drinking
Posted By:jasmin On 8/7/2004

MANNERS REGARDING FOODING

The Prophets guidance with regard to food is perfect guidance. It was described by Ibn al-Qayyim as follows:

  1. When he put his hand in the food, he would say, Bismillaah (in the Name of Allaah), and he told people to say this when eating. He said, When any one of you eats, let him mention the name of Allaah. If he forgets to mention the name of Allaah at the beginning, let him say Bismillaahi fi awwalihi wa aakhirihi (in the name of Allaah at its beginning and at its end). Saheeh hadeeth, narrated by al-Tirmidhi (1859) and Abu Dawood (3767).

    The correct view is that it is obligatory to mention the name of Allaah (say Bismillaah) when eating. The ahaadeeth which state this are saheeh and are clear, with no contradictions in them.

  2. When he raised the food to his mouth, he would say, Al-hamdu Lillaahi hamdan katheeran tayyiban mubaarakan fihi ghayri makfiyyin wa laa muwadda wa laa mustaghni anhu Rabbanaa azza wa jall (Allaah be praised with an abundant, beautiful, blessed praise. He is the One Who is Sufficient, Who feeds and is never fed, The One Who is longed for, along with that which is with Him, and the One Who is needed. He is Our Lord, may He be glorified). Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5142).

  3. He never criticized food at all. If he liked it, he would eat it, and if he did not like it, he would leave it and not say anything. Narrated by al-Bukhaari (3370) and Muslim (2064).

    Or he would say, I do not feel like eating this. Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5076) and Muslim (1946).

  4. Sometimes he would praise the food, as when he asked his family for food, and they said, We have nothing but vinegar. He asked for it and started to eat it, saying, What a good food is vinegar. Narrated by Muslim (2052)

  5. He used to talk whilst he was eating, as is seen from the report quoted above about vinegar.

    And he said to his step-son Umar ibn Abi Salamah when he was eating with him: Say Bismillaah and eat from that which is in front of you in the dish*. Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5061) and Muslim (2022). [* At the time of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), people used to eat together from one dish, and children would sometimes forget the correct etiquette. - Translator]

  6. He would repeatedly urge his guests to eat, as generous hosts do, and as is seen in the hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah, narrated by al-Bukhaari, about the story of drinking milk, where he repeatedly said to him, Drink! and he kept telling him to drink until he (the guest) said, By the One Who sent you with the truth, I have no more room for it! Narrated by al-Bukhaari (6087).

  7. When he ate with others, he would not leave until he had made duaa for them. He made duaa in the house of Abd-Allaah ibn Bisr, and said: O Allaah, bless for them that which You have provided for them, forgive them and have mercy on them. Narrated by Muslim (2042).

  8. He commanded people to eat with their right hands and forbade them to eat with their left hands. He said, The Shaytaan eats with his left hand and drinks with his left hand. Narrated by Muslim (2020). This implies that eating with the left hand is haraam, and this is the correct view, because the one who eats with his left hand is either a shaytaan (a devil), or he is imitating the Shaytaan.

    It was also reported in a saheeh hadeeth that he told a man who was eating with his left hand in his presence, Eat with your right hand! The man said, I cannot. He said, May you never be able to! and the man never lifted his right hand to his mouth after that. Narrated by Muslim (2021). If it was permissible (to eat with the left hand), he would not have prayed against him for doing so. It was the mans stubborn arrogance that made him refuse to obey the command, and this is the utmost disobedience which deserved this prayer against him.

  9. He commanded those who complained that they never felt full to eat together and not separately, and to mention the name of Allaah (say Bismillaah) over the food so that He might bless it for them. Narrated by Abu Dawood (3764) and Ibn Maajah (3286).

    (See Zaad al-Maaad, 2/397-406)

  10. It was also reported that he said, I do not eat reclining. Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5083.

  11. He used to eat using the first three fingers (of his right hand), which is the best way of eating.

See: Zaad al-Maaad, 220-222. And Allaah knows best.

OTHER GENERAL GUIDLINES:

  1. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to know what he was eating.

  2. He used to eat what was good for him.

  3. He used to eat enough to keep him going, but no so much as to make him fat. Ibn Umar narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: The believer eats in one stomach whilst the kaafir eats in seven. Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5081) and Muslim (2060).

  4. He taught his ummah something to protect them from diseases caused by eating and drinking. He said: The son of Adam does not fill any vessel worse than his stomach. It is sufficient for the son of Adam to eat a few mouthfuls, to keep him going. If he must do that (fill his stomach), then let him fill one third with food, one third with drink and one third with air. Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (1381), Ibn Maajah (3349); classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah (2265).

USE OF LEFT HAND

The one who uses his left hand to eat and drink should be taught the Islamic ruling and should be reminded of the hadeeth of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) on this matter. When a man ate with his left hand in his presence, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, Eat with your right hand. He said, I cannot. He said, May you never be able to! Nothing was stopping him but his stubborn arrogance, and he never raised his right hand to his mouth after that. (Reported by Muslim, 3776). According to a report narrated by al-Daarimi, his right hand never reached his mouth. This man suffered paralysis because of the duaa of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him).

Al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: In this hadeeth we have an indication that it is allowed to pray against a person who breaks a shari rule with no excuse. We also see the principle of enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil in all situations, even with regard to eating. It encourages us to teach proper manners of eating to a person who is eating if he is doing something wrong. The hadeeth also teaches us that the Shaytaan eats with his left hand, because of the hadeeth: When any one of you eats, let him eat with his right hand, and when he drinks, let him drink with his right hand, because the Shaytaan eats with his left hand and drinks with his left hand. (Reported by Muslim, 3764). The Shaytaan eats with his left hand so the person who eats with his left hand resembles the Shaytaan, indeed the Shaytaan is sharing his food with him. Ahmad reported with a hasan isnaad from Aaishah and attributed to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): Whoever eats with his left hand, the Shaytaan eats with him. (Tuhfat al-Ahwadhi, commentary on hadeeth 1721).

Moreover, the left hand should be reserved for removing dirt, as when cleaning oneself after going to the toilet (istinja) and blowing ones nose and other kinds of cleaning oneself and removing dirt. How can a person use that which is used for removing dirt and impurities for putting food in his mouth?

Hafsah (may Allaah be pleased with her), the wife of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to use his right hand for eating, drinking and getting dressed and his left hand for everything else. (Reported by Abu Dawood, no. 30)

Al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

This is a fixed rule in shareeah. It has to do with honourable things such as putting on ones shirt, trousers and shoes, entering the mosque, using siwaak, applying kohl, combing and styling ones hair, shaving the head, giving salaam at the end of prayer, washing oneself in ghusl or wudoo, leaving the toilet, eating, drinking, shaking hands, acknowledging the Black Stone, and other things where we are encouraged to use the right hand or start with the right. As for the opposite [things that are not honourable], such as entering the toilet, leaving the mosque, blowing ones nose, washing oneself after using the toilet, taking off one's shirt, trousers and shoes, and so on, then we should start with the left or use the left hand. All of this has to do with honouring the right hand or right side.

Some people may have a real problem that prevents them from using their right hand, such as being paralyzed and so on. In this case they are excused and there is no blame on them. Al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: If he has an excuse for not eating and drinking with his right hand, such as sickness or an injury, then this is not makrooh.

EATING AT TABLE -It was narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never ate at a table. In Saheeh al-Bukhaari (6450) it was narrated that Anas (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never ate at a table (khiwaan) until he died and he never ate soft bread until he died.  

It says in Awn al-Mabood: The khiwaan is a table made of wood with legs on each side; eating from such a table is the habit of those who live a life of luxury, so that they do not have to bend over and tilt their heads when eating.

 There is no doubt that it is permissible to eat at a khiwaan or at a high table, and to eat soft bread. But the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) refrained from those things out of humility and as a sign of his giving up the pleasures of this world.

 Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar said: The fact that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) refrained from eating at tables and eating soft bread meant that he was giving up the pleasures of this world in return for the pleasures of the abiding world (of the Hereafter).

 This does not justify denouncing those who do things like that. If a person visits people and finds them eating at a table, there is nothing wrong with him eating with them at the table. They would find it very strange indeed if he were to go away and sit on the floor on his own; he should not make them do that, rather he should accept their invitation and eat with them. If he explains to them what the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, and reminds them of asceticism (zuhd), that is very good. And Allaah knows best.

MANNERS OF DRINKING  Manners in the Islamic law concerning drinking in general. From amongst them are the following

  1. Drinking with the right hand.
  2. To say Bismillah before you begin to drink.
  3. Drinking at least three sips or more and not drinking the entire drink at once.
  4. To praise Allah after finishing the drink.
  5. To drink sitting down.
  6. The person giving the drink to others should drink last.
  7. The person passing out the drinks should start on his right hand side when distributing the drinks.
  8. An individual should not drink from the pitcher, but instead pour some of the drink into a dish or cup, and then drink.
  9. A person should not drink from gold or silver dishes.



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